The horrible truth about family

Family is the most important aspect in life... They raise you up and teach you things that can't be thought in school.. Your moms were in such pain when they were delivering people like us...But having family members has ups and downs too... You think about it now.. There is no such family that haven't have a conflict, fight or a big misunderstandings... Its true...

Lets start of with siblings, if you do not have a sibling, i understand that it will be very lonely at times.. You dont have someone to play with when you're young..You grew up alone( in a way).. But the plus point of not having a sibling is that you get more attention from your parents... And as all of us know, usually the sons or daughters that doesn't have siblings get 'good stuff'.. You do not have to share, or you dont have to get in fights with your siblings about very tiny problems that made both parties get angry at each other..SO think about it..

Now we talk about parents. Its very normal for us to love our parents.. I mean as a teen...But as we all know, as you grow up and reach a certain age, you wont know how to show your love towards parents.. I mean for most of the teens... But some teens could really show how much they love them no matter what their age is.. Or worst case senario, there are even some teens that do not love their parents at all...

One of the reasons some teens do not love their parents is because the parents hold on tight to them and don't let go...There is this theory...' The tighter they hold on to you, The further the children will drift from their parents' Think about it.. I'm saying from a girls point of view...Because of the society out there, girls at this age are dangered.. With all the cases.. So i understand when the parents hold on tighter to protect them.. But sometimes they hold on so tight that its ridiculous..( for girls who understands, you know what i mean).. And its a need for girls to hang out and watch a movie with friends once a while... But the way they are overprotecting us, sooner or later we'll just go out with friends without telling them.. and this will soon be a habit..Its true right..

And for guys, from my point of view, your moms and dads don't really care whether you go hanging out with your friends or not... I mean cause you are guys right..You wont see girls going around raping ya'll right....So i rest my case.. But guys obviously get really irritated whenh their parents nag them about stuff..

Ya'll have to agree with me that all parents says to go to them when you need help and stuff... But sometimes do you notice that its really hard to talk to them.. First, Your parents will be all suspicious about things that are happening in your life..you know what i mean.. And they'll loose a little of their trust towards you...Second, sometimes they dont even have time to listen to all of your problems that you'll generate this feeling that your parents do not care about you anymore... And the whole misunderstanding crap comes up..Or sometimes you'll just feel that its not right to tell them or they have no business of knowing whatsoever...

And for teens that both of their parents are working, i know how you feel... Sometimes they get so caught up with their work until they dont even have the time for us anymore... And work comes first..They always say that the money they're making is for our future and all.. i understand that... But how can you keep up with your children's trust NOW if all you are thinking about the Future...They'll loose all their childrens trust even before marriage or even now...Its true right..

Lastly, parents do not know the world out there is different now...Everything is different in their own way...Sometimes i feel that they are still so stuck in their days until they are so lost in our time.. I'msaying in everything aspect.. They get so grown up until they totally forget how its like being a teen and the things you'll do when you are a teen... They do know what its like.. Its just sometimes they get so caught up with adult stuff until they really have no sense of how its like being a teen anymore.. So to all that is reading this right now, if you have any objection, pls comment me about it..^^ thanks for reading